Monday, March 19, 2007

Look On Its Brighter Side







I've never heard half as good as what a friend once said, "..if you're really beautiful in and out, smart and strong, no one can ever put you down, no matter how peolple try. Isn't it nice to hear such words from someone, simply makes a day really light. TRUE! Its a waste of time minding bad energies when you can actually make life more enjoyable by seeing the brighter side of it. While some hates you, some may also like or even love you so why bother when you're certain that you can't please everybody no matter how you try, that no matter how you try to cope with them, something's telling them that something isn't just fine..but what?? If concretized as to why, good for you but if its a feeling based, just cross your fingers! Smile, move on.. Yes, you might say that its easy to put into words and how about putting it into actions? That you're not from planet Mars but Earth. But hey! Haven't you gone a farther way of pleasing someone that you know will not just materialize? Happiness, laughter, success, all these have counterparts but nonetheless all part of what we call life. But whatever life brings, tatagal ka pa nga ba? Its really all up to you if you quit, or win the race. Nevertheless, you're actually investing up there, not on this perishable land.. I am not saying that we should take things for granted but just do yourself a favor.. Life is too short for things you really don't deserve..

7 comments:

ella said...

Your right you can’t please everybody. I liked those words because it seems like nobody will go with you forever just being yourself. I know life is just a temporary. Others will stay others will leave and there are acquaintances to fill my journey in life. However it’s good to mind other people but not to the point you allow them to control you. There’s no happiness in thinking about their minds. You should think what makes happy for you. However you should be sensitive into others feeling at the same time. Living in your own world is a sign that you brave enough in facing world.

I believed everything has a limitation. I agree life is too short for things you really don't deserve. Live life in the fullest yet worthy.

ella said...

Your right you can’t please everybody. I liked those words because it seems like nobody will go with you forever just being yourself. I know life is just a temporary. Others will stay others will leave and there are acquaintances to fill my journey in life. However it’s good to mind other people but not to the point you allow them to control you. There’s no happiness in thinking about their minds. You should think what makes happy for you. However you should be sensitive into others feeling at the same time. Living in your own world is a sign that you brave enough in facing world.

I believed everything has a limitation. I agree life is too short for things you really don't deserve. Live life in the fullest yet worthy.

MYK said...

Despite the miseries of life, life gives us a choice. It gives us a choice to always look on its brighter side.

When in misery, we always have the power to empower ourselves. We may be down at times, but we have the power to let ourselves break away from darkness.

People may always look down on us, but no matter how they put us down. We shouldn’t be bothered at all if we know we’re on the right side.

PS: Kath, I’m glad you’re my classmate. I appreciate you. Thanks for being nice. I wish you all the best in your endeavors! 

jel said...

It doesn’t matter if everyone likes you or not. What matters most is that you know to yourself that your not doing anything to those people that keeps you pulling down. Sometimes there are people who does not understand you where in no matter how you make things put in the right place still they don’t bother to comprehend. As what people always say, you can’t please them because they don’t know who you are and what’s really inside you. I admire you so much because of all the trials coming to your life you never gave up. In fact your still trying to prove to all the people that your sincere and you have dignity that must be protected. Keep it up. Stay as you are. Otherwise, you are real aside from being a wonderful person.

joycem said...

Just like what they say.. "You can't please evrybody" It's true sometimes people criticized us because of what we wear or what. But I tell you you shouldn't care about what people say about you they can't dictate you that's your own identity. If they say bad things about you take it as positive! I mean they actually fail to put you down because Negative comments are suggestions to improve yourself more. Whether positive or negative comments take it as helpful ways on how you will become a person that people will accept you. I'll share my perception regarding developing self esteem... "IF PEOPLE ARE TRYING TO PUT YOU DOWM IT ONLY MEANS THAT YOU'RE ABOVE THEM" (there's no medicine for insecurities)=)

Cris Mendoza said...

Yes!you are so right that you cannot please everybody!I am also a victim of that,that many doesn't like me most of the time its because I am tackless, loud and sometimes boastful but then why care for them?right?life is so beautiul for us to be bothered by them right?..In my case, I just live my life everyday as if it is my last day here on earth!

joanspring said...

True, some people could be really suppressing for others, and when that suppress person happens to be you, then maybe the least thing you could do is to just to look on the brighter side of it. But first you also have to weigh things, maybe you also have to see where that thing comes from, I mean why would such person do such thing if he/she doesn’t have any reason right?. But if you really know that you are “pure, clean and innocent” then maybe you just really have to look on the brighter side, it’s your life after all.